A lot of people have asked me what I thought about Belle de Jour’s outing of herself recently.1 Now, unless you’ve been living in a cave, you are probably aware that Dr. Brooke Magnanti revealed last week that she was the person behind the pseudonymous prostitute that captured everyone’s attention with her blog, Diary of [...]
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A few weeks ago, I proposed a series of scenarios where I asked the female readers how they’d react to being introduced to a variety of different groups as their date’s “whore.” The reactions were generally about what I expected, statistically speaking. Today I have a corollary exercise for you.
You’ve gone out to a club [...]
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Phone call received at about a quarter past 5, from one of my better clients.
“Would you be willing to come treat one of your favorite clients?”
“What did you have in mind?”
“A quickie blowjob.”
“You want me to come blow you? Now?”
“Yes.”
I normally don’t do 30 minute appointments, or short-notice assignations at all, for that matter. Sometimes, [...]
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This is about dirty talk. Well, mostly. Perhaps I should say it is about erotic sound, which includes dirty talk, moans, groans, grunts, exclamations, and the utterance of other sounds during sex or its prelude. I like to refer to it as aural sex.
I have to caution you, this isn’t going to be one of [...]
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A conversation I had with someone online this morning prompted me to write this short little post. It’s about being a whore. Not so much from the literal “getting paid to fuck” sense as the broader context in which we attach certain meanings to the word itself in our society.
This post is directed specifically at [...]
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In response to my Q & A post a few days ago, I had a couple of posters make comments about appreciating the fact that I enjoy my sexuality for my own purposes, and don’t mind the “slut” moniker being applied to me. Like some, I find it empowering just because I know people use [...]
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Classic Darwinian theory posits that the female of most mammalian species trade sexual fidelity for various things the male can offer: protection, status, meat, and so on. So, if we accept the basic assumptions of sexual selection theory, aren’t pretty much ALL female mammals prostitutes? [Source]
In my post about the various names for the clients [...]
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Bad words, bad words, bad words. Whatcha gonna do?
Dirty talk has always been one of the mainstays of my bedroom experience. Even when I lost my virginity at 14 I’d beg my boyfriend to “fuck me” or tell him that I wanted to “suck [his] cock.” I’m not even sure where I’d come up with [...]
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