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A lot of people have asked me what I thought about Belle de Jour’s outing of herself recently.1  Now, unless you’ve been living in a cave, you are probably aware that Dr. Brooke Magnanti revealed last week that she was the person behind the pseudonymous prostitute that captured everyone’s attention with her blog, Diary of [...]

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My New Rate Structure

by Alexa on August 23, 2009 · 5 comments

After lengthy consideration, I’ve updated my rate structure to better reflect the way I see myself positioned within the larger escort/professional companion community.  Some rates have gone down a bit (i.e., the 24-hour rate), some have gone away (rates for a week at a time), and I’ve rebuilt the specific package construction to tailor it [...]

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How to Find a Provider

by Alexa on August 9, 2009 · 17 comments

I‘ve had quite a few people ask me how to go about finding an escort, or provider, as we’re commonly referred to these days.  Now that I’ve gotten three more requests, I thought maybe it’d be a good idea to go ahead and write it up here so I don’t have to rehash the same [...]

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In response to my Q & A post a few days ago, I had a couple of posters make comments about appreciating the fact that I enjoy my sexuality for my own purposes, and don’t mind the “slut” moniker being applied to me.  Like some, I find it empowering just because I know people use [...]

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Retirement Age?

by Alexa on July 25, 2008 · 3 comments

I had a reader ask an interesting question via e-mail a few days ago:
Out of technical curiosity, what do you think is the retirement age of a successful “courtesan” as you like to say? It seems like one would lose their earning potential fairly quickly?
The question itself suggests that escorts have a shelf life, perhaps [...]

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My Greatest Fear

by Alexa on July 11, 2008 · 16 comments

I doubt any you have ever heard of Chantel Robertson.  She was murdered recently.  She was a sex worker, an escort to be specific.
Renee, over at Womanist Musings, laments the fact that, in her death, she will not be treated with the dignity that most other murder victims are because of what she did for [...]

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“Mike” completed the online application a couple of weeks ago, wanting to be my first appointment after I started accepting clients in the San Francisco area.  After I verified his identity, we began e-mailing back and forth so that I could get to know him a bit.  Some providers prefer to talk to people on [...]

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A Courtesan?

by Alexa on July 1, 2008 · 12 comments

In a previous post, I made a comment about explaining to someone what I did for a living. Personally, I have been ambivalent about describing it, but on this blog and in some other places, I’ve listed “courtesan” as my “job.” Someone unfamiliar with the term, though, asked me a couple of days [...]

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“Where do you work?”

by Alexa on June 26, 2008 · 14 comments

In this post, I made reference to an interesting conversation I had with the girl who processed my rental application for my apartment in San Francisco.
One of the questions on the application is “Place of Employment.” Naturally, I wrote “self-employed.”
“I see you are self-employed. What do you do?”
How to answer that question. [...]

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