The songs used were After Dark by Tito & Tarantula, Bedroom Dancing by Day One and Stroker Ace by Lovage (I was tempted to use Strangers on a Train though).

Thanks for the tips Alexa!

If I didn’t know better Princess, I’d swear that you were one of the many fine women that I’ve had lap dances from in the past! I’ve been to strip clubs many, many times in my life and I always enjoy the company of the ladies who work in them. You’ve described some of my past lap dances to a tee as if you were there yourself, and I’m so terribly sorry that you weren’t! ;o) The “making eye contact while her ass is in my face” is in fact a toughie for me, it’s hard to make eye contact with a girl who is gyrating her sweet, gorgeous ass in my face although I have been known to “multi-task” at times! LOL I remember my first experience in a club as a young, wide-eyed, 21 year-old kid; it was the very day I turned 21 as a matter of fact…I was a little apprehensive and quite anxious at first, but the ladies went “above and beyond” to make me feel completely relaxed and “at home” once they learned that it was my first (and certainly not last) visit to a strip club, and I’ll always remember how kind and sweet they were with me that day…gotta love’ em!! ;o)

Lap dancing I will venture to say, is an art form and as with any art, the more you practice, the better you get at it! DUUUH! Some girls have it, and alas I’ve seen some that just don’t, hard as they may try. It has to be something that you’re heart, mind, and soul are into, otherwise a girl will end up looking as if she’s just “going through the motions” for the sake of picking up a tip and she certainly doesn’t want to come across like that by any means, because nothing will turn a guy off more than dis-interest and insincerity on the part of a woman who’s giving the lap dance!! I’ve been in such scenarios before and it ’s a lose-lose situation all the way around…would you not agree Alexa?

As for the “mood” music, whenever I go to a strip club, I have in my mind a list of songs I like to hear during a lap dance and I have no problem slipping the DJ a few extra bucks to make sure he plays them while I’m there. One of my favorite all-time lap dance or strip-tease songs is “Pink” by Aerosmith-gee, wonder where Steven Tyler and Joe Perry got the inspiration for THAT tune? LOL It’s got the right rythmn and tempo, and the words are just perfect for a hot strip-tease or erotic lap-dance! Another good one is “Private Dancer ” by Tina Turner, and “Hot Legs” by Rod Stewart works well for me personally, too.

Jeez, with all this talk of lap dances and such, I’m extremely tempted to visit the “Hanky-Panky” in Redwood City just as soon as I get off this rock-pile known as work! LOL And remember this guys, if you always act like a gentleman at the local strip club, the ladies there will always treat you like one! And make sure to “tip” the girls as generously as you can, because they work for a living and must buy groceries and pay rent just like anyone else.

‘Nuff said…now get the Hell out there and have fun!

“It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues” ~ Abe Lincoln