Most of you who’ve been reading me a while know that I have entertained a fantasy of being the center in a gang bang for quite a while. And while I have been the center in a blow bang, I’ve increasingly become more wanting of just having the shit fucked out of me. In fact, I lamented this in a tweet a few minutes ago.
As you can see, the one thing that’s held me back from being serious about it has been the issue of STDs. It’s hard to assemble several people together for sex and not be reasonably sure that everyone is clean. So I can’t just ask ten random guys to show up and expect everything to be hunky dory.
I have decided to take this leap, however. Purely for my own sexual enlightenment and for the experience. With that in mind, if you are someone local to San Francisco, or know of someone who is, who can bring together ten (or more) men for a gang bang, contact me using my e-mail address or through the contact form here on the site.
There are a few requirements, of course.
- Everyone has to be above the age of consent in California (18). I don’t care what race, sexual orientation, or status anyone is besides that.
- No female participants – just real cocks, please.
- No one is getting paid – not me, not any of the guys. This is purely for my own personal enjoyment (and the guys’, of course!), and not related to work in any way. Whoever organizes the guys cannot charge for the privilege of fucking me.
- Everyone who participates must have two consecutive clean STD test results (performed by a legitimate doctor or testing service), the latest of which must have been done within the past 30 days. If you show up without two sets of results, you won’t be fucking me. Of course, I’ll have my test results with me as well.
- No holes barred – all three orifices will be available for penetration (simultaneously).
- My usual rules of engagement will apply – no slapping of the face, no scat play, and nothing that will leave permanent marks on me. There’ll also be no pee play for this session. Anything else will be fair game.
- No condoms will be used. Part of the allure of being in a gang bang for me is being used as a cum receptacle. The participants can cum inside me, on me (including my face), or anywhere else they wish.
- Absolutely no cameras, still or video, will be allowed. All cell phones will have to be left outside as well. I can’t have pics of me doing this floating around!
- Everyone must acknowledge my safe word and agree to stop instantly if I use it.
- I have not decided if I am going to allow anyone in to “just watch” yet.
- I don’t know if there’ll be a “scenario” to act out or just a “sit me in the middle and do me” kind of thing. The scenario appeals to me more, but a lot of it will depend on the chemistry I have with whomever I choose to organize it.
If you can provide the location for the fuck fest, then so much the better (has to be some place with a shower!). If not, I’ll find someone who will, even if I have to pay for it. I don’t have a specific date set for the bang as yet – I’ll have to wait until I find someone and we work out the details. I’ll be shooting for the middle of October to November time frame in all likelihood, however.
Before I’ll commit to working with you, you’ll have to promise me you are confident you can assemble ten guys who’d be willing to do this, who’ll be comfortable naked around one another, and will have the erection power and stamina to last for a while. I don’t care if they’re new to gang banging, though. There are other requirements for the organizer that I’ll go over in detail with anyone I believe is serious about this, including issues about verifying who you are, my personal safety during the scene, and so forth.
Please don’t contact me telling me you’ll participate, or that you can organize it if I can find X more people to join you. I don’t want to have to line up 10 guys myself – that’s why I’m asking for one person to organize it on my behalf. And please don’t waste my time – if you have no intent on following through on an offer, please just spare us both the time and effort.
And before anyone asks, of course I’ll write about the experience. 
Go!
UPDATE: The gang bang is scheduled for November 1st at 6PM.
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Saw your twitter post and thought to myself “Damn, wish I could fuck her bareback” and then you put out this invitation. Wow, you are “ballsy!”
I’m leaving a comment because there is no way I could round up 10 guys to do this, but you know damn well I wish I could.
Can’t wait to read about it when it happens.
I’m leaving a comment because there is no way I could round up 10 guys to do this, but you know damn well I wish I could.
I do know that, yes.
that sounds absolutely delicious. what a fantastic idea! I blogged about the troubles of finding a guy to fuck me with my boyfriend about a year or so ago, but never thought of an open invitation. food for thoughts. thanks m’dear. :-P
You’re welcome. I posted a tweet about finding someone when I was looking for a quick lay a few months ago and it worked quite well, actually.
Sequoia–I need to e-mail you and make plans for us to meet up, and I would totally do a M-F-M with you and your boyfriend…..
You are going to have someone there purely for your safety, right?
Yes. I’ve actually modified the original post a bit to make sure readers understand I’ve taken that into account. Thanks for bringing it up.
It’s what I do:p
The ten guys wouldn’t be that difficult. But since I don’t live in SF, I guess that point is moot, huh?
I suppose it is, yes.
I need a flight to SF.
You want me to wait?
I don’t understand why you just don’t do porn. What you are looking for is basically the description of doing a porn movie. Finding ten guys with the tests, that’s something that you’ll typically only find in the porn industry, or male escorts, who typically service other men.
I think your argument against porn has been that it will reveal your identity and possibly hurt your future career? But fact is, with information today, nothing is a secret. Anything can be found out about anyone. So trying to keep things private will still eventually end up coming out, often worse.
Seems you always talk the talk, but don’t seem to back it up. You hide behind a blog. There are many other women who share you viewpoints, but they are out there in public, their identities known, and frankly, they are taken a lot more seriously, because they don’t hide behind the cover of internet anonymity, something that rarely lasts.
Should really go tour the old SF armoury some day.
Seems you always talk the talk, but don’t seem to back it up. You hide behind a blog. There are many other women who share you viewpoints, but they are out there in public, their identities known, and frankly, they are taken a lot more seriously, because they don’t hide behind the cover of internet anonymity, something that rarely lasts.
I know this is going to be a huge disappointment to you, but I don’t care how “seriously” you or anyone else takes me. I live my life the way I want, and I elect to share some of it here. If you don’t believe it, don’t like it, find it boring, or whatever, you’re free to stop reading it. I’m not “other women,” and I’ll manage these things as they suit me, not because someone else (who’s hiding behind a random Twitter account) tries to goad me into doing it in a manner they think I should.
sorry to jump in here, but personal private sex is WAY different than porn! porn = not real sex. its a bunch of choreographed positions specifically designed with the viewer in mind and not for the benefit of the performers.
Do you do porn? I’ve performed in a few scenes and trust me, its WAY different than having sex in real life.
#1 – Damn I wish I lived closer to SF! This would fulfill a huge fantasy of mine as well (as I’m sure plenty of other guys).
#2 – I cannot wait to read the recounting when it happens Alexa – especially with your talent for writing!
Hmmmmm maybe I can somehow get work to pay for a trip out west and I could play security for you and at least get to watch….. lol
I could play security for you and at least get to watch
Maybe I should do a traveling gang bang tour?
LOL if you make it to the Virginia area let me know, I’ll work for free ;)
Didn’t you mention that you knew a swingers group that was all tested? Why don’t you ask them?
I’ve let them know I am looking. I haven’t heard back from them yet, though.
Two things thoughts entered my head when I read this post.
First one: “Go You!” I have said it before your sexual confidence, assertiveness, and determination is awe-inspiring. Take guts to make things like this happens. The second thought was “Damn it! she did it again” and it came after reading this line.
No holes barred – all three orifices will be available for penetration (simultaneously).
I kind of http://namelesschaos.com/2009/07/the-beauty-and-mystery-of-double-and-triple-penetration/” so ya your willingness to do TPs made my day (again) but beyond that when I say your blog is inspirational I mean it. As you may know I have my own blog where I review sex toys (including anal sex toys which makes me “gay” in the eyes of the narrow-minded) and I would never have gotten the guts to open my own sex blog without yours to inspire me.
However, it didn’t stop there yesterday you posted this pic on Twitterhttp://twitter.com/AlexaRPD/status/3949270939 a little while later I went and created http://maleanalplay.tumblr.com and here comes the “you did it again” moment after reading the above line I now have a group fucking tumblr :http://crowdedscene.tumblr.com as well.
The idea for them has been bouncing around my head for a while. So I had to post just to say thanks for providing the final inspirational push to make me actually go through with them. That two tumblrs in two days, I must say your clients must be in for quite a thrill with you, I mean if just having you as a muse requires such a pace to keep up with you…
Anyway, I really hope you can make this happen and that you enjoy yourself greatly. I’ll be looking forward to reading about how it went if you can get it organized (Although I’m a little scared at what that post might inspire me to do next).
I kind of http://namelesschaos.com/2009/07/the-beauty-and-mystery-of-double-and-triple-penetration/”
Corrected:
I kind of have a thing for multiple penetrations http://namelesschaos.com/2009/07/the-beauty-and-mystery-of-double-and-triple-penetration <—link that works
All of those links have me confused.
If you want, I can block you from reading the post on what happens. That way, you don’t have to worry about being coerced into doing something.
I wish I lived in San Francisco or that you were still living in Florida.
I know that I could probably round up a few real-life friends or TER acquaintances to participate.
I’d love to watch or join in.
Good luck.
See my comment above – maybe I should do a GB tour.
if you decide to do a GB tour don’t forget about us Canadians!
Just curious, do you care about the looks of the guys?
I have fantasized about a smaller gang-bang, 3-4 people max… But aside from all the questions of security, in any sexual fantasies I’ve had the men should be tall, well built and handsome. Porn star or gym buff body, ideally. I once briefly dated a guy who worked in construction, now that was a sight to behold too… Ensuring that strikes me as something a bit harder to do.
Just curious, do you care about the looks of the guys?
Well, yes, and no. I force myself not to care with client in some cases if I am not physically attracted to them – I don’t suspect this will be any different. I hope.
You’re so edgy Alexa and I love it! I live in the SF Bay Area, have lots of friends, and could probably round up a few (if they’re “up” for it, that is! LOL)…hope you achieve your goal! Good luck and have fun…
Thank you, sir.
It’s a little bit of turn-on to fantasize about, but I don’t think I’d do it. Everything I’ve ever heard about this kind of thing is that guys tend to have a hard time keeping wood in that situation. Especially if you allow cameras. There’s a reason only a couple dozen guys regularly work in porn. Having sex in front of a lot of other people can be difficult. I suppose you could give out Viagra…
Especially if you allow cameras.
There’ll be no cameras at this event.
I suppose you could give out Viagra
If they need to. They’ll need some stamina, and if it takes a little blue pill to do that, then so much the better.
Just a thought. If you don’t hear back from the swingers group, perhaps one of the local escort agencies might be willing to offer the opportunity to some of their better regular customers. That way, the men will also have been screened somewhat and they’ll be in the area. The agency might like to be able to offer it as a high end perk.
I hadn’t thought of that, but I’ve gotten enough interest in it that I think we’ll be able to pull it off.
*Head and cock explode at same time* Wow. I wish I had more gangbang buddies. Alexa, this sounds like it’s going to be hot enough to make September the hottest month of the year here in SF. From experience, I would caution you that scheduling that many people can be difficult, and do try to attempt the TP early – there’s nothing more frustrating than being buried to the hilt in the ass of a cum-slick woman wanting a DP, and not having any of the other guys able to join the fun. Ask me how I know… :-(
*Head and cock explode at same time*
That sounds painful.
I would caution you that scheduling that many people can be difficult
So I’ve heard. I’m not married to ten – it could be 8, or 9, or 7. I’ll work with whatever we come up with.
Ask me how I know… :-(
First of all, strange as it may sound, in the past I have had this fantasy myself, or at least I have suddenly understood (at least perhaps) why some women may want this… I was giving a talk, one in which I was a subject matter expert on a (financial) topic in the news of great interest. Naturally about 50 guys showed up, along with a handful of women. It was strangely exciting to be the center of attention of so many guys asking questions, etc. I later began to mentally picture what it would be liked to get gangbanged by them all… and I would only consider myself partly bisexual :)
In any case, I’m in the bay area and would love to participate, but my friends hardly know that I’m into this sort of thing. I think I’d have trouble getting more than one or two others to join me. Most guys are lame, right? Me too at times. In any case, I hope it happens, and when you write it up I’ll be picturing what it would have been like to be at the center of it myself :)
First of all, strange as it may sound, in the past I have had this fantasy myself
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I’ll be picturing what it would have been like to be at the center of it myself
That’s far more common that you probably realize.
Hi Alexa, I sent you a private email pertinent to this subject, hope it didn’t get lost in deluge of fan mail you must get. Anyway, I applaud your audaciousness. Kudos, babe, kudos!
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Moses, I replied to you right after I received it. Let me know if you didn’t get it.
I didn’t get your reply Alexa. Perhaps it’s in my spam filter? I’ll send you an alternate address to write to. Thanks!
Sounds like a great time! Maybe I’ll try it sometime after menopause. :p
Why after menopause?
Ok, my biggest question is how on earth you organize who does what when?! Are they going to count off? Have a sexchoreographer? Aside from all my regular intimacy issues, what keeps me from exploring my inner freak more is just anxiety over the logistics!
Aside from all my regular intimacy issues, what keeps me from exploring my inner freak more is just anxiety over the logistics!
Too much thought.
I honestly don’t know the answer to the choreography. I just assumed once someone saw an opening (pun intended?), they’d jump in.
You are amazing. You truly create your own opportunities, whatever might strike you fancy (L)
I just have the philosophy if you wait on things to come to you, you’ll be wasting valuable time. I’d prefer to go get what I want.
I have been invited to gangbangs, swinging parties and orgies and I have the same fear. How can I be sure that people really are clean.
The way you described it definitely sounded incredibly hot though.
That’s so hot! I would do it. 25/m/PA. Just need the tests for documentation.
Hey, not to sound like a freak but I would gladly be a spectator if you need any since I am local. I figure the more the merrier, right? Thanks and good luck. Hope things work out like you want. Quite an endeavor on your part, that is for sure.
I’ll admit, the fantasy of a gangbang is not one I’ve ever had though I think its more a self esteem issue than anything else, also I’m a little intimidated by one man let alone multiple instances of man-ness lol but I applaud you in going after the experiences you seek! I’ve been fortunate enough in being able to exist at times let alone become so adventurous in either my sexuality or any other part of my being. I really can’t wait to read your thoughts after the fact and I still say that one day you should write a book, not a wank bank kinda book but a true accounting of the incredibly bold explorations that you have experienced, I honestly believe that it could be incredibly empowering, even to those who perhaps aren’t so adventurous, hell, you make ME consider things I hadn’t really contemplated before. You’re strong and intelligent and so very incredibly bold! Your confidence and inherent curiosity is inspirational to even the mousiest among us. I really do hope that someday we will have a chance to share lattes and “grrl talk” because I count you among my circle of actual friends even though I have never met you in the flesh. You’re an amazing and extremely courageous woman my dear, keep it up ♥
Ok, Alexa fans… we’re all camped out here and on Twitter, ready for the big event tonight at 6pm PT. Three hours to go! We’re all virtually watching and waiting. Twitter had BETTER NOT go down, that would be really bad timing…
Enjoy. I wish I were there.
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