From the monthly archives:

August 2009

This is the second of three stories from my readers about their first experiences with escorts.  You can find the first one HERE.
This one comes to us from Marc in Chicago.
So, I’ve been reading Alexa’s blog for quite a while and when she asked for people to talk about their first provider/client experience, I jumped [...]

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Many of you have seen my other blog site, My First Professional Sex.  It details the first professional experiences of sex workers, including of course escorts and prostitutes.  I thought it might be a bit interesting, and important, to hear from the other side of the equation, though.
I’ve had a couple of people ask me [...]

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Escort Industry Terms

by Alexa on August 28, 2009 · 21 comments

A couple of weeks ago, I posted an article for prospective clients on how to find a provider.  I’ve decided to take that a bit further and build a while section here for clients/prospective clients, to include that article, an article on proper etiquette for seeing an escort, and a list of the commonly used [...]

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The Awkward Dance

by Alexa on August 24, 2009 · 26 comments

Have you ever been on a blind date?  Do you recall how tentative you were; how…maybe even scared you were about the meeting?  Imagine going through that each and every time you go out, several times per week, and knowing that every date was almost invariably going to become very intimate within a few minutes [...]

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My New Rate Structure

by Alexa on August 23, 2009 · 5 comments

After lengthy consideration, I’ve updated my rate structure to better reflect the way I see myself positioned within the larger escort/professional companion community.  Some rates have gone down a bit (i.e., the 24-hour rate), some have gone away (rates for a week at a time), and I’ve rebuilt the specific package construction to tailor it [...]

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Making Things Happen

by Alexa on August 23, 2009 · 7 comments

In my post about Heather Poole’s Mile High Club entry on Gadling, I discussed the subject of being proactive and making things happen, specifically with respect to my sex life.  I’m one of those people who doesn’t sit around and wait for things to come to me – if I’m in the mood to fuck, [...]

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I just returned home from my first “working tour.”  Touring is the travel to another area for the purpose of serving clients in those areas if you’re not familiar with the term as it is applied to the escort business.  I had planned to spend the vast majority of the summer on the road touring, [...]

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Dr. Alexa?

by Alexa on August 17, 2009 · 41 comments

I‘ve been entertaining thoughts lately of going on to get my doctoral degree once I’ve completed my Masters next May.  A year or so ago, I’d have peed (in a non-sexual way) on any suggestion that I’d continue going to school after I’d gotten done with my graduate degree.  But given the experience of [...]

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Tattoos and Piercings

by Alexa on August 13, 2009 · 29 comments

On the occasion of my 18th birthday, Nikki and I drove to a town near us (Franklin) specifically so I could get a tattoo and get my nipples pierced.  I’d been wanting both for quite some time.  But, like many states, Tennessee required you to be 18 to get either of those without parental consent, [...]

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