As you guys know, I really enjoy it when my readers let me know that I’ve helped them explore their sexuality in some way. One of my personal goals in life is to help other expand their sexual repertoires. As I see it, the broader your range of sexual capabilities, the more fun you and your partner(s) will have in the bed (kitchen, bathroom, barn, car, wherever you elect to fuck). So I try to throw in the occasional bit of advice about how I do something or how I learned to do it in the hopes that it might encourage someone else to give it a shot, or so if you do try it you do it right (as I see it).
Recently, a couple who reads my blog decided to give face fucking a try after reading my article on Throat Fucking. That article is easily the most read on the site; I get well over 100 hits per day from people who’ve done Google searches for things like “how to throat fuck,” or “throat fucking.” In fact, if you Google “how to throat fuck,” my blog entry is the first result.
I know for me personally, with the right sized cock, I can really get into it and have even gotten to the point where I can just about reach orgasm from having my throat penetrated alone in some cases.1 And there’s an incredible visual (and therefore psychological) factor or the guy fucking me as well. I’ve had several tell me how hot it is to see their entire length disappear into my mouth.
Rather than me blabbering on about their experience, though, I’ll let the couple speak for themselves. This is shared with their permission.
Dear Alexa,
Ever since my wife read your article about Facefucking, she has been eager to try it. I, however, was a bit hesitant. First, we don’t have a great setup to get the angle of the position right. Me being part Korean, we opted for a traditional Korean style bed, which is basically an enlarged mattress– not ideal for this position. And second, I was concerned about her comfort and the possibility of her gagging or even vomiting.
So yesterday evening I decided to take a shower. When I got out, I found my wife waiting for me in the living room with nothing on but a silk black bra and a barely there thong. She looked fantastic. Dark blue nail polish, fantastic cleavage, flat tummy, round bottom, and panties with a little black bow in the front- my fate was sealed.
Our couch is modular style, meaning there is an open end to it without an arm. She guided me over to the open end where she had a makeshift knee pad waiting on the floor for me. She told me to kneel (not really asking) and I obeyed. She laid on the couch with her head near my rapidly hardening cock. Not that I needed more stimulation, she started licking the underside of my dick. Then she slipped my balls into her mouth, playing with them with her tongue while stroking my shaft. She then slowly guided my cock into her mouth and all the way down her throat. It felt absolutely incredible to feel her whole face against me like that. I started to slowly move in and out of her mouth. Each time I thrusted into her mouth, she would take all of me without complaint. In fact, she seemed to think that I was being a little too hesitant because she reached up, grabbed my ass, and guided me harder into her throat. The feeling was incredibly sexually arousing. I would describe it as being almost the same sensation as being in a pussy.
It didn’t take long before she was fingering herself while I did my thing. This position is so visually fantastic because I can watch her laid out there with easy reach to touch her. I continued to pump harder down her throat while playing with her breasts. She would occasionally bring her hand up from pleasuring herself to stick her fingers in my mouth so I could taste her. Seeing how incredibly wet she had gotten, it wasn’t long before I couldn’t hold off climaxing any more. I stood up and came all over her face and mouth. She smiled up at me while playing with the cum in her mouth and licked off any extra cum off my dick. She then used my cock to wipe off the cum on her cheeks and into her mouth.
Easily the best sex we had in a while, I laid myself on the couch in order to catch my breath. I didn’t have long. She straddled me, pushed her panties to the side and stuck her wet cunt in my face. I did as I was told. She was amazing wet and came all over my face.
So yeah, THANK YOU for the article about throat fucking. It was incredibly arousing and it’s now my wife’s favorite.
Awesome. I’m glad you guys gave it a shot and enjoyed it.

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You’re the Mother Theresa of face fucking. Bravo.
My gosh, did you have to use Mother Theresa as the comparison?
What do you know, you’re inspiring people
You know, you should seriously consider writing a sexual self help book. I can already think of some slogans to go: “Alexa idea’s are so hot, they’ll make you melt in your pants”. And then you do some aggressive publicity, top the New York bestsellers list, and before you know it you’ll have your own island and private jet. Ah… the good life
That island AND jet would be pretty kinky
(I get dibs on the private flight attendant!)
you should seriously consider writing a sexual self help book.
Veronica Monet wrote a book about secrets of escorts. Maybe I could do something similar. Mine would likely be a bit more…graphic.
before you know it you’ll have your own island and private jet.
I’m liking the sound of that. :)
(I get dibs on the private flight attendant!)
More graphic you say. That sounds juicy. If you ever do write something, you have a fan here. I tend to like writers who don’t “restrain” themselves
You do realize they’re probably going to be lots of people applying for the job of the private flight attendant. Might be you can have more than one, yes? Nothing like a little high altitude indulgence
After reading your blog on Throat Fucking my boyfriend and I gave it a try and it is now one of our favourite things to do in the bedroom…or any other room in the apartment! I especially enjoy hanging my head off the bead ;)
can I be your flight attendant?
Dear Alexa,
I read your blog regularly before leaving for work in the afternoon. After reading your detailed article on throat fucking, I was so horny that I didn’t know how I was going to focus on my job. I ended up sucking my fiance off in the parking lot and being five minutes late. But it didn’t stop there.
When we got home, I told my man that I hoped he hadn’t made himself cum too much while I was gone, because I had a surprise for him. I tried the whole “hanging-your-head-off-of-the-bed” thing and well…let’s just say I have not had that much semen on my face in a long time.
Thank you so much and keep up the good work!
-Jess