Q & A with Alexa - Session 1
October 12, 2008
I get a lot of interesting questions, in comments on the blog, via the blog in the form of e-mails, and in a variety of forums that I participate in. So I though it’d be a good idea to answer the questions publicly for everyone’s…amusement.
This will likely be the first in a running series where I will answer those questions here on the blog. If you have a question you’d like me to answer, you can send it to me via the Contact Form here on the web site, or via e-mail at alexa dot therealprincess at gmail dot com. There’s nothing really out of bounds, but I probably won’t answer questions that are too personal
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Q. Do you see X as clients?
A. Yes. I don’t discriminate. I’ll see anyone who will pay me and who seems like they’d be a good match for me during the screening process. I don’t have any specific demographic I won’t see.
Q. Are you really bisexual? Do you have a preference for men or women?
A. Anyone who’s read this blog knows the answer to the first part of that question. I am very bisexual and have been since I was in my middle teens. As for preferences, with paying clients I prefer men, for several reasons. In my personal life, I tend to prefer women, however.
Q. What do you typically bring along with you on the job?
A. While the specifics vary depending on what the client has requested, there are some standard things. Condoms, of course (in a variety of sizes, thickness and materials - I prefer the Trojan Magnums, the LifeStyles Snugger fit, and the new Lifestyles SKYN condoms for those who don’t like/can’t use latex). I bring baby wipes, AstroGlide and Eros lubes, three sizes of cock rings, three sizes of butt plugs, a strap-on, and a couple of different styles of lingerie. I also have some pre-cut sheets of saran wrap (to use as a barrier during rimming or going down on a woman, in case I want to use them).
Q. Do you have age restrictions on the clients you’ll see?
A. Not at this time. Many escorts tend to avoid the younger clients (those under 30, or perhaps even 35) due primarily to their perceived lack of maturity and the fact that they typically don’t make the kind of money where they have that much disposable income lying around to pay for a hooker. The vast majority of my clients have been in their late 30s, 40s, or early 50s.
Q. Do you really, and I mean really enjoy your work?
A. I’d think the answer to that comes through in my writing here. If I didn’t enjoy the work, I wouldn’t be doing it. I worked two jobs in my life that I hated - one was at a grocery store and one was selling cell phones. I lasted less than a month in both of them before I quit. I’ve done some modeling work, I’ve been a dancer, and now I am doing this. I’ve enjoyed all three of those and, perhaps not coincidentally, they’ve all been big money-makers for me.
Q. You write about a lot of good experiences. Why don’t you write much about the negative aspects of being a hooker?
A. Largely because I haven’t had any. At least, none that have been significant. I carefully screen my clients and will only see those I am comfortable with. So by the time I get to see them in person we know each other a bit and it doesn’t seem as much like a “random hook up.” The only negatives I’ve encountered have been little things that annoy me or situations where we just didn’t synch like I thought we would. I haven’t been robbed, beaten, raped, drugged, or anything like that. So far it has been a pleasant experience. If and when I do encounter a bad situation I’ll definitely write about it, though.
Q. How do you prepare for a date?
A. I do the usual stuff - shower and all the primping. I don’t use the lotions or perfumes to see clients unless they ask me to (don’t want them going home smelling like me). If I am going to be seeing a new client or a client I know/suspect enjoys anal sex, I’ll give myself an enema an hour before I leave. Depending on where I am seeing him, I’ll either dress in lingerie and wear an overcoat or I’ll pack my stuff in my bag to change into when I arrive. Then I’ll leave to go see the client.
Q. How many clients do you see a week?
A. I generally limit myself to only one client per day, and don’t see clients on Tuesdays or Wednesdays (school). So I’ll usually see anywhere from two to five clients per week.
Q. Do you get nervous when you go to see a client for the first time?
A. Yes, I do. Even though I’ve vetted and screened the clients and spoken/chatted with them, I still get butterflies each and every time I go t see a new client. You just never know what might happen, so I am always on guard and a bit tentative when I make that first visit. Most of the time things synch up just as if we were continuing the conversation we’d been having online/on the phone.
Q. I found you through your blog. How can I see you?
A. I haven’t officially said anything, but I’ve had a sort of policy about not seeing client who come to me via my blog or any of the forums I participate in. There are a couple of reasons for this. I am actually working on a full post about this and will cover this in more detail shortly.
Q. What is the best compliment you’ve received from a client?
A. I get a lot of compliments on my ability to converse intelligently about a wide variety of topics. Those tend to be my favorite. It lets me see that the client values me for more than just someone to get off with.
Q. You wrote a really interesting article on throat fucking. Is that something you really enjoy?
A. Definitely, largely because I taught myself how to do it and because I know how to do it correctly, I can do it without it hurting me (like it does people who don’t know what they’re doing). I also know my clients really get off on being able to do that. One of the primary reasons men will see a prostitute is to do things they can’t do at home, and throat fucking definitely falls into that category (as do facials). Since I like doing it and I know it really gets the clients off, I very much enjoy being able to provide that service.
Q. Do you have any hard limits?
A. Yes, I do. I won’t do anything that involves scat (shit), anything that draws blood or leaves permanent marks, and I won’t do role play involving a daddy/daughter or mother/son kind of situation. Those role play scenarios just really squick me out. Other than that, anything else is good or is at most a soft limit. There are some limits that are situational. For example, I won’t let a client tie me up until I’ve been with him several times and feel I can trust him. Same for rape or forced sex scenarios.
I think that’s it for Session 1. I’ll accumulate more questions and answer them in future sessions. Like I said, if you have a question you’d like answered here, feel free to submit it as I outlined above. 
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I love reading your thoughts and ideas.
I couldn’t agree more about avoiding scat, blood or leaves permanent marks.
What role play do you like? How do you make it believable? Do you own a sexy cheerleader or catholic schoolgirl outfit?
“squick”
Love that. Scrolled down to comment here and still laughing.
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Have you entertained couples? Do do threesomes with other ladies? If not, why? Great blog!
As for preferences, with paying clients I prefer men, for several reasons.
So why do you offer reduced rates for women? I mean, it’s not as if you need their business. You have plenty of male clients (as far as I can tell).
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