Alexa’s Update # 4
July 13, 2008
I seem to have become quite popular over the past few days, and have had several requests for bookings. I have appointments set up for Tuesday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday of this coming week. And I’ve got a request from a guy to be a “naughty maid.” I’ll have to go out and find a nice, sexy maid’s outfit for this one. Should be fun.
I had a guy ask me to become a professional submissive from one of my ads on a fetish board. I’m not ready for that yet. I have another somewhat unique request in as well, and I’ve agreed in principle to do it, so long as all the participants can provide copies of recent STD test results. The coordinator there is working on that to see what the others think. We’ll see where it goes. 
I had my first request for a facial last night. I suppose it is weird, but I rather enjoy those. And I know my client did. I think I may write a post about facials in the not too distant future as well, since I know there are some pretty strong opinions about them covering a wide spectrum of positions.
I had someone ask why I didn’t post about my appointments from earlier this week. I don’t think writing about just routine sex from most of my straight encounters would be the kind of thing that would be entertaining to most of you. You’d get bored with it easily, and I think it’d get overly repetitive telling you that I blew the guy, he fucked me, he fucked me in the ass and came, over and over again. If I’m wrong, let me know! 
I’ll write about the more interesting or “different” encounters, though, to be sure. As I’ve said before, I have few hard limits, and I am looking forward to exploring some of those. Many of my clients (and potential clients) so far have really only expressed an interest in straight sexual encounters, though.
I sent a comment to the author of an article in a newspaper about men cheating on their wives with escorts. She replied back and asked for an interview. I told her I’d do one if we could do it via e-mail or IM so I’d have a record of specifically what I said so if something was taken out of context, I could point to what I said in the record and correct it. She hasn’t replied back. Typical of journalists - if you want to put them in a position where they may have to correct themselves or be held accountable, they flake out. 
Speaking of facials, I am *so* incredibly tired of sexuality being politicized, and people telling others how they should or shouldn’t experience their own sexuality. 
Is it wrong for me to take “That was easily the best sex I’ve ever paid for” as a compliment?
What about “I checked out some of your blogs and the website. You are quite possibly the most articulate & sexy combination I have ever seen in a woman. Well done.”
I get chill bumps watching some things in high definition on my huge plasma TV, especially things on channels like National Geographic, the Science Channel, and whatnot. 
Tony Snow died this week. While I grieve for his family, I can’t help but wonder what kind of person can stand before an entire country and knowingly lie to them like he did on a daily basis. He is by no means the only one to do it, of either party, but I just don’t think I could stand before a group of people and knowingly deceive them every single day like the spokesperson for the President has to. At least, that’s how it has been over the past few years. I couldn’t be a P.R. person.
A trip to the Good Vibrations store is on the schedule this week. I have some disposable income, so…
You guys have a great week. 
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While I agree that your more novel encounters would warrant a more extensive report, I am (and I bet others are too) interested in the frequency of your work, including the vanilla kind. I am curious not only about the erotica (which is great, of course) but your life in your new work. That includes the frequency, how it interrupts the rest of your life, whether it is enjoyable or becomes “only work,” how you feel about the vanilla stuff (do you like just blowing and fucking a guy you just met who paid you a wad of cash?), etc. Watching you go through this is as new to me (us?) as it is to you.
I sent a comment to the author of an article in a newspaper about men cheating on their wives with escorts. She replied back and asked for an interview. I told her I’d do one if we could do it via e-mail or IM so I’d have a record of specifically what I said so if something was taken out of context, I could point to what I said in the record and correct it.
I’d be cautious with this. She’ll never agree to those terms, and all you’ll be doing is drawing attention to yourself. IMO.
And no matter what you say, it will be colored and contexted to someone else’s POV. I’d avoid it.
I know the advocate in you want to be heard, but I think it’s a bad idea.
xoxo,
nina
Since I don’t know how to put other peoples’ text in italics, I’ll just put the html for it…
I suppose it is weird, but I rather enjoy those
I enjoy them too! Not weird at all!
I’ll write about the more interesting or “different” encounters, though, to be sure.
yay!
A trip to the Good Vibrations store is on the schedule this week. I have some disposable income, so…
lucky… I’m in the market to buy a strapless strap-on… Looking very hard..
<3 sc
“Typical of journalists - if you want to put them in a position where they may have to correct themselves or be held accountable, they flake out.”
yes and fucking yes. however there are naive bastards like me who yearn to help in filling the massive void left by HST.
traditionally (as in many cases) british *spits* people have been uppity and condescending in looking at the usa as having a facist political system and more especially a facist media, but all the outlets here are heading the same way towards sensationalism and dehumanization. riles people up…or maybe i should say it softens people up.
before being shot, someone wiser than me once said ‘together we stand, divided we fall’ and i am everywhere conscious of ‘the media’ and its divisive agenda.
reason i mentioned british *spits* opinion and drift towards american fuckedupedness is the campaign one of the tabloids ran a few months back.
directly underneath the story of the murder of blonde haired blue eyed teenage model by drug crazed chef (stabbed on her doorstep and raped while she lay dying) - they introduced a phone number to ‘gauge public opinion’ about bringing back the death penalty.
this poll ran for weeks, underneath a similarly brutal story each time and each time showed a majority support for the death penalty being brought back from our terrible past.
the point is not that newspaper propaganda will, itself, bring about the death penalty but it has successfully instilled the desire to see it return in some people who previously subscribed to the belief that it is a sign of an under developed legal system and cetera if execution is needed.
the polls didn’t come with the info that it is more expensive to the tax payer to execute someone (legal fees) than to keep them banged up for life.
anyway bugger lugs i hate the bastard media hacks who are taking us to 1984, so i apologize if i rambled on slightly.
i get the impression you are having a ‘growth period’ or are at some sort of crossroads where your writing seems to be hitting new heights…i haven’t felt so encouraged since my balls dropped.
peace and whisky flavoured condoms
scottish,
i get the impression you are having a ‘growth period’ or are at some sort of crossroads where your writing seems to be hitting new heights…i haven’t felt so encouraged since my balls dropped.
You certainly have a way with words, my friend.
I’m tempted to ask what kind of time frame we’re dealing with here, but maybe it’s best I not know. As always, thank you for your…insightful comments.
Shannon,
I’m in the market to buy a strapless strap-on
Is that like a wireless extension cord?
Is it wrong for me to take “That was easily the best sex I’ve ever paid for” as a compliment?
What about “I checked out some of your blogs and the website. You are quite possibly the most articulate & sexy combination I have ever seen in a woman. Well done.”
The first one, yes! The second one concerns me a bit - are you giving your clients your real name, and/or do some of them know about the blog? Is that safe? As long as you feel safe though, I guess its all good.
Is that like a wireless extension cord?
very funny.
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it goes up inside you!
the boyfriend will enjoy it…
<3sc
bd,
The first one, yes!
Why is it bad?
The second one concerns me a bit - are you giving your clients your real name, and/or do some of them know about the blog? Is that safe? As long as you feel safe though, I guess its all good.
No, I am not giving them anything about what I do afterhours, and certainly not my real name (Alexa is not my real name, you realize that, right?). A couple of them have found me through the blog, though.
Shannon,
it goes up inside you!
That’s called a Feeldoe, and supposedly it is an awesome thing to use once you get the hang of it.
1) I realize Alexa isn’t your real name.
2) I should’ve been more clear. I remember you saying that you didn’t talk about your ‘work’ with the first date guy, but the blog is all about your work and about some other intimate details of your life, right? Is this not in conflict? I can be slow sometimes…
And yes, of course they are both great (and deserved) compliments! :)
bd,
I remember you saying that you didn’t talk about your ‘work’ with the first date guy, but the blog is all about your work and about some other intimate details of your life, right? Is this not in conflict?
I don’t see it as conflictive. I don’t talk to them about my work, while I am with them.
Tony Snow was a mensch; he wasn’t a liar at all. I think perhaps you’re thinking of Scott McClellan.
Regardless, I was surprised to see a political post here. Don’t drink too much unfiltered water up there in the Bay Area; it can affect the brain.
;)
Henry, I think you missed the point of that statement. In my opinion, every one of them are liars (and they are, Snow, McClellan, all of Clinton’s, etc.). That’s why I made the point about the mouthpieces for all of the administrations. It wasn’t intended to be “political,” so much as a statement that I couldn’t stand up in front of the country and lie to the people like they do (and people like them).
Regardless, I was surprised to see a political post here. Don’t drink too much unfiltered water up there in the Bay Area; it can affect the brain.
@ Henry Jennings
Why’s that? Ruin your image that a sex worker, or a woman might have political opinions? Or did it screw up your daily whack-off fantasy?
Guess what pal, she has a brain. Keep your misogyny and your rape culture phallacracy to yourself before a gang of club wielding lesbians tracks your ass down and makes you the sorriest motherfucker who ever walked the planet.
nina aoki
Wow, Nina, that’s a lot to read into a very very simple statement. Threats of violence in reaction to a simple statement that I’m surprised to see a political post on an eros site is a touch extreme, don’t you think? Kinda proves the point about the water, however, so thanks.
Alexa — I see that you understood that I wasn’t being mean or malicious, just surprised.
The nature of being a politician’s representative to the press involves, let’s say, delicate handling of the truth. Doesn’t equate to lying, it’s more a matter of “spin”. Granted, there are outright liars in the business; McClellan was one; Pierre Salinger was another. Tony Snow was a good guy, and as far as I know, never intentionally lied to the public or the press. He will be missed by those that appreciate skillful interface between the government and the hounds of the press.
But enough of this red herring. ;) Keep up the great work on the blog.
And Nina, one word: xanax.
Oh Henry! How lucky I feel to have you here to help me cope with my emotions! I’m so sorry that your expectations of what you might find on a woman’s blog weren’t met!
I mean, good lord, a woman who has the agency to make her own choices about her sexuality having the audacity to think about something other then your penis! The nerve of her to surprise you with something which didn’t meet with your assumptions about her blog!
How dare she have a cunt and a brain.
And one word Henry? Asshole
nina aoki
Wow, again.
As she so eloquently proved, without your assistance, “Alexa” is perfectly capable of explaining herself. Why you feel that not only am I attacking her, but that she needs defending by you, is quite beyond me.
I’m sorry I ever replied to your attack; apparently there’s just something in what I said that caused you some sort of blood-vessel burst or something, for which I most sincerely apologize.
All better now?
All better now?
Cut your cock off with a butter knife and I’ll think about it…
Why you feel that not only am I attacking her, but that she needs defending by you, is quite beyond me.
Mmmm…. indeed it is. (lightbulb?)
And before you make any more assumptions, she’s perfectly capable of defending herself in any situation. Tho, there are some situations where she shouldn’t have to. Like this one.
nina aoki
Please, get help.
Alexa, sorry for apparently being the impetus for starting a flamefest; that was not at all my intention, as anyone can see from my posts.
I will refrain from public comment here in the future; it’s obvious that someone doesn’t like it one little bit; and the last thing I want is to detract from your voice.
“Regardless, I was surprised to see a political post here. Don’t drink too much unfiltered water up there in the Bay Area; it can affect the brain.”
^^^
Oh… this is MY fault now?
uh huh….
“as anyone can see from my posts.”
HELP! SOMEONE SAVE ME FROM THIS CRAZY BITCH!
LMFAO!
OMG, you two! I left for a couple of hours this afternoon, and you two have been bad little babies! I should spank the both of you and send you to your rooms.
lmfao!!!!! Bahahahahaha!
I now know for sure that Nina can help me protect you
I like you more and more, Nina
*disclaimer to everyone involved* this was not meant to get me involved . I honestly wasn’t paying much attention to what was actually going on. However, the butter knife bit caught my attention.
However, the butter knife bit caught my attention.
lmfao! Oh Keeley… you’re such a sweetheart!
xoxo,
nina
I will gladly accept my spanking. As soon as all the butter knives are hidden away, that is. ;)
*hides the butter knives*